Why is my best friend's girlfriend like this?

[An****]

Hello! I am an 18-year old girl. Why is my best friend's girlfriend such a jealous stupid girl? She is so possessive towards her 18-year old boyfriend! I hate her! 

 

She complains to her boyfriend a lot about these things: 

 

1. My best friend spends 2 days a week and 2 hours a day with her while my best friend spends 7 days a week and 9 hours a day with me. Also, she gets to have phone calls and text messages with him. Plus, she gets to have sex with him within those two hours. Isn't she fucking content? 

 

2. Her boyfriend and I exclude her from a lot of activities and trips. 

 

3. Her boyfriend helps me out in a lot of things while he only helps her in very few things. 

 

4. My best friend and I do not inform her about our trips, activities, and personal secrets in order to hide them from her. 

 

She complains about these things? She complains about the fact that her boyfriend prioritizes me over her? Really? Her boyfriend prioritizes me over her and is closer to me because he and I have been best friends since childhood while she only met him when they were 16-years old! Also, my best friend and I often fought together as comrades and protected each other against tough guy bullies since childhood and we are still fighting together as comrades and defending each other to this day while all she does is stand there to be protected by him but cannot help him. I even cook delicious foods for her boyfriend while she can't. I guess she is inferior to me as a person. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! 

 

And what's funny is that her boyfriend often takes my side against her whenever she and I get into fights. Then I and her boyfriend berate her together. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! That means she is a bad person! I mean my best friend is a very nice person so if he always takes my side against her then that means there really is something wrong with her. 

 

Seriously, she is so mad that her boyfriend prioritizes me over her? I mean so what if she is his girlfriend? Like who cares? No matter what she does, There will always be roles in her boyfriend's life that she can never equal or be better than me at. Those roles will always be mine and will never be hers. I will always be his one and only platonic friend. She is just there for sex. 

 

So for all girls who is like my best friend's girlfriend, remember this: 

 

A boy fights for and dies for his girlfriend while best friends fight together and die together. 

 

Remember that!

[su****]

I think it is important to look at this from all the different point of views.

 

You told us about your's already.

 

Her point of view is having a boyfriend who spends most of the time with a different girl and she is complaining about that. And if she cares about him, she would like to know what's going on in his life and of course she doesn't like to be excluded or to be used for sex only.

In her position she should probably end the relationship and look for someone who loves her as much as she loves him at the moment if she is confident enough.

 

His point of view is probably pretty great, since he has 2 jealous girls fighting for his attention. But he is neither confident enough to end his current relationship nor to start a relationship with the girl he spends the most time with, which is you.

 

So she is haveing sex with him hoping for a real relationship and you are gigivng him a lot of attention (maybe) trying to get into a real relationship with him.

So both of you are used and none of you is confident enough to make him decide.

But ironically you dont even fight him, but you fight each other.

[Sa****]

Maybe it's because she's not old enough yet.